Dreaming about having sex with relativesWhat does it mean? Is it good to dream about having sex with your loved ones? Dreaming about having sex with your loved ones has real influences and reactions, as well as the dreamer's subjective imagination.
Dreaming about having sex with a loved one
Dreaming about having sex suggests that your emotions or sexual desires are suppressed, or that you are very energetic and have high creative ideas. If you feel comfortable having sex in the dream, it means that the dreamer is physically and mentally healthy. If you feel uncomfortable, it suggests that there may be some problems with your body.
Dreaming about having sex with parents or other relatives is considered by psychoanalytic theory to be a psychological reflection of the dreamer's "incestuous" desire. However, research by psychologists has shown that "incestuous sexual desires rarely appear in dreams. On the contrary, they appear in metaphorical and symbolic ways, and such dreams are often manifested as nightmares." The sexual object is an elder or elder whom the dreamer respects or reveres, symbolizing the exchange and resonance of ideas.
Case analysis of dreaming about having sex with relatives
Dream description: Hello, I am 16 years old today. I respect my mother very much and I have never had any thoughts about her. But maybe my underwear is too tight. I had a sexual dream when I was sleeping a few nights ago, but the object of sex was actually my mother. I dreamed that my mother came in when I was taking a shower, touched my buttocks and reached in front to rub my penis, and then we had sex. After waking up, I found that I had a nocturnal emission. Now I feel very sorry for my mother. Every time I talk to her, I feel ashamed. How should I adjust? Thank you!
Dream interpretation: Having sex in a dream is a normal physiological symbol of adolescence. It is the suppression of sexual desire that is then reflected in the dream. The occurrence of sexual dreams is related to the level of sex hormones in the body and sexual psychology. With the gradual maturity of physiology and psychology, both men and women will have sexual impulses. This sexual impulse is suppressed by reason in the waking state, but when entering the dreamland, it is not bound by anything, so all kinds of sexual dreams appear. For example, sexual dreams can be manifested in the form of kissing dreams, pregnancy dreams, masturbation dreams, rape dreams, naked dreams, sexual perversion dreams, incest dreams, etc., as well as other sexual behaviors that cannot be performed in both spirit and body when awake. Many friends feel ashamed, afraid, self-blame or confusion about having such sexual dreams. They can't even believe how they can "want to do" such a morally corrupt and absurd bad thing.
From the perspective of psychoanalysis, if the sexual object is the parents, then it is a psychological reflection of the dreamer's "incestuous" desire, which is called the "Oedipus complex". However, research by psychologists shows that "incestuous sexual desire rarely appears in dreams. Instead, it appears in metaphors and symbols, and this type of dream is often manifested as a nightmare." This type of dream usually suggests that you have encountered some minor difficulties, such as pressure in study and work, and hope to get recognition from your parents and other family members, or to have good communication with your parents, and to have spiritual exchanges with your parents, but in the dream it becomes a sex scene.
But one thing that needs to be made clear is that our sexual dreams cannot be controlled or diverted by our willpower, nor can they be suppressed if one wants to. It does not mean that one has low character, is evil and ugly, or has unhealthy morals, so friends who have had "incest dreams" do not need to worry about their "dirty dreams" at all, because sexual dreams have nothing to do with character and morality!
